Okay, so the break up means that no matter what, you don't have a
chance of being able to get back with your ex girlfriend no matter how
much you might want to - right?
Wrong! In most circumstances, you will have a chance to win her back and have her in your life again, but that is ONLY going to happen IF you do certain things that are going to attract her back to you.
If you try to win back your ex girlfriend the way that most guys go about it, you are going to be sorely disappointed because the things that most men do end up driving away their ex for good. You don't want that, so you might as well find out what you can do to win her back, right?
Here are some simple tips to help you win back your ex girlfriend:
1. She won't be attracted to you if you whine about the break up.
Whining just is not an attractive male quality and yet - a lot of men will whine to their ex about how unfair she is being. You don't want to do that. You want to make her feel more attracted to you, not less attracted. So, even if you do get the impulse to whine to your ex girlfriend about how unfair the break up was - fight it. You can't take it back once you do whine and that alone can end up proving to be more than enough to turn her off to you.
2. She will be attracted to you if you are nonchalant about the break up.
I am not saying that you want to act like it had no emotional impact on you, but the more nonchalant you are, the better. See, a lot of guys won't act this way because they are seeking out pity from their ex girlfriend. However, all of the pity in the world is not a guarantee that she is going to take you back. On the other hand, being nonchalant about the break up gives off the impression that you can handle it maturely, and that is going to be an attractive thing to your ex girlfriend.
3. The more sexual tension you can create with your ex girlfriend, the better.
If you can make your ex girlfriend feel an undeniably real sexual tension around you after the break up, not only can you win her back pretty fast, but you can end up experiencing some of the best makeup sex ever. You really have to work on this, because the more intense the sexual tension is, the easier it is to get her back and the quicker she will come back to you.
Wrong! In most circumstances, you will have a chance to win her back and have her in your life again, but that is ONLY going to happen IF you do certain things that are going to attract her back to you.
If you try to win back your ex girlfriend the way that most guys go about it, you are going to be sorely disappointed because the things that most men do end up driving away their ex for good. You don't want that, so you might as well find out what you can do to win her back, right?
Here are some simple tips to help you win back your ex girlfriend:
1. She won't be attracted to you if you whine about the break up.
Whining just is not an attractive male quality and yet - a lot of men will whine to their ex about how unfair she is being. You don't want to do that. You want to make her feel more attracted to you, not less attracted. So, even if you do get the impulse to whine to your ex girlfriend about how unfair the break up was - fight it. You can't take it back once you do whine and that alone can end up proving to be more than enough to turn her off to you.
2. She will be attracted to you if you are nonchalant about the break up.
I am not saying that you want to act like it had no emotional impact on you, but the more nonchalant you are, the better. See, a lot of guys won't act this way because they are seeking out pity from their ex girlfriend. However, all of the pity in the world is not a guarantee that she is going to take you back. On the other hand, being nonchalant about the break up gives off the impression that you can handle it maturely, and that is going to be an attractive thing to your ex girlfriend.
3. The more sexual tension you can create with your ex girlfriend, the better.
If you can make your ex girlfriend feel an undeniably real sexual tension around you after the break up, not only can you win her back pretty fast, but you can end up experiencing some of the best makeup sex ever. You really have to work on this, because the more intense the sexual tension is, the easier it is to get her back and the quicker she will come back to you.
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